Keep calm and ......!

     I was worrying about stuffs happened, stressing out about things to do, freaking out of fears, all that. Lost my self-esteem, my inner peace, myself. 

    I kept complaining about everything, comparing myself to another person. It ain't a beauty at all.

     Talked to my best dudes, screaming my heads off, searching for peace. LITERALLY. I even searched on Google and Google images. Sound desperate, but look what I found:

DAMN, this is my favorite :]

     Also found this very lovely one:

HAKUNA MATATA is a Swahili phrase that is literally translated as "There are no worries". It is sometimes translated as "no worries", although is more commonly used similarly to the American English phrase "no problem".

And these are more...

Feels like I have forgotten how to dance.

Feels like I have forgotten to truly be happy.

Feels like I have forgotten how to be myself again.  

     My friends were right. Perfections belong to nobody. It's time to stop this nonsense. I don't want to waste my time putting a fake smile on my face as I pretend to feel no pain again. I'm gonna be true to myself. Happiness will find me :)

Just for now
It's that time of year
Leave all your hopelessness' aside
Tears stop right here
I know we've all had a bumpy ride
-Imogen Heap

Oh yeah and one more thing

The Little Secret of Happiness

The secret of happiness is to focus on the goodness in other people. Because life is like a painting. To see the beauty of the painting is best to look it under a rays of light, not in a closed and dark room.

The secret of happiness is not to avoid difficulty. Climb the hill, not slide down, and your feet will grow stronger.

The secret of happiness is doing things for other people. Inflowing water will not grow. However, the water that flows freely is always fresh and clear.

The secret of happiness is to learn from other people, and not try to teach them. The more you show how much you know, the more people will try to find deficiencies in your knowledge. Why duck called "stupid"? Because it's too many quack.

The secret of happiness is kindness, see other people as a member of your family. Because each creation is yours. We are all is the one God's creation.
The secret of happiness is laughing with other people, as friends, and not ridicule them, as a judge.

The secret of happiness is not arrogant. When you consider they are important, you'll have friends wherever you go. Remember that the biggest skunks will be the most stinky.

Happiness comes to those who give love freely, which does not ask other people to love them first. Be generous just like the sun that shine without first asking whether people should receive its warmth.

Happiness means to receive any that came, and always say to yourself "I am free in myself."

Happiness means making other people happy. A meadow full of flowers need trees surround it, not a concrete buildings that are rigid. Surround your meadow of life with happiness.

The secret of happiness is to keep your heart open to others, and share life experiences. Heart is like a house door. Sun light can only enter when the door is wide open.

The secret of happiness is to understand that friendship is far more valuable than goods, is worth more than take your own affairs.

Have you got the idea yet?

The Blind Boy and The Man

A blind boy sat on the steps of a building with a hat by his feet. He held up a sign which said: ‘I am blind, please help.‘ There were only a few coins in the hat.

A man was walking by. He took a few coins from his pocket and dropped them into the hat. He then took the sign, turned it around, and wrote some words. He put the sign back so that everyone who walked by would see the new words.

Soon the hat began to fill up. A lot more people were giving money to the blind boy. That afternoon the man who had changed the sign came to see how things were. The boy recognized his footsteps and asked, ‘Were you the one who changed my sign this morning? What did you write?’

The man said, ‘I only wrote the truth. I said what you said but in a different way.’
What he had written was: ‘Today is a beautiful day and I cannot see it.’

Do you think the first sign and the second sign were saying the same thing?

Of course both signs told people the boy was blind. But the first sign simply said the boy was blind. The second sign told people they were so lucky that they were not blind. Should we be surprised that the second sign was more effective?

Moral of the Story: Be thankful for what you have. Be creative. Be innovative. Think differently and positively.

Invite others towards good with wisdom. Live life with no excuse and love with no regrets. When life gives you a 100 reasons to cry, show life that you have 1000 reasons to smile. Face your past without regret. Handle your present with confidence. Prepare for the future without fear. Keep the faith and drop the fear.

Great men say, ‘Life has to be an incessant process of repair and reconstruction, of discarding evil and developing goodness…. In the journey of life, if you want to travel without fear, you must have the ticket of a good conscience.’

No Regrets

If I knew it would be the last time that I see you walk out the door, I would give you hugs and kisses and call you back for more.

If I knew it would be the last time I'd hear your voice lifted up in praise, I would videotape each action and word, so I could play them back day after day.

If I knew it would be the last time I could spare an extra minute or two to stop and say I love you, instead of assuming you would KNOW I do.

If I knew it would be the last time there to share your day, well I'm sure you'll have so many more, so I can let just this one slip away.

For surely there would always be tomorrow to make up for an oversight, and we always get a second chance to make everything alright.

There will always be another day to say I love you, and I hope that we would never forget that tomorrow is not promised to anyone, young or old alike, and today might be the last chance you get to hold your beloved one tight.

So if you're waiting for tomorrow, why not doing it today? For if tomorrow never comesyou'll surely regret the day, that you didn't take that extra time fopr a kiss, a hug, or even a smile, and you were too busy to grant someone, what turned out to be their last wish.

So hold your loved ones close today, whisper in their ears, and tell them how much you love them and that you'kll always hold them dear.

Take time to say "I'm sorry, please forgive me", "thank you", or "It's okay". And if tomorrow never comes, you'll have no regrets about today.

How To Love A Girl

How to love a girl:

1. Tell her how you admire her

2. Always tell her you love her at all times

3. When she's upset, hold her tight

4. Pick her over all the other girls you hang out with

5. Play with her hair

6. Pick her up, tickle her, amg wrestle with her

7. Tell her jokes

8. Bring her flowers just because

9. Hold her hands

10. Hold her hand and run

11. Throw pebbles at her windows at night

12. Let her fall asleep in your arms

13. Sing to her no matter how awful it sounds

14. Get her a little mad at you, and then kiss her

15. Give her piggy back rides

16. Push her on swings

17. Tell her she looks beautiful

18. When she's sad, stay on the phone with her, even if she's not saying a thing

19. Slow dance with her even if there isn't any music

20. Kiss her and run

And when you've fallen in love with her, tell her.

Apple on Trees

Girls

are like apples

on trees. The best ones

are at the top of the tree.

The boys don't want to reach

for the good ones because they

are afraid of falling and getting hurt.

Instead, they just get the rotten apples

from the ground that aren't as good

but easy. So the apples from at the top thinks

that something is wrong with them, when in 

reality, they're amazing. They just

have to wait for the right boy to

come along, the one whose

brave enough to

climb all

the way

to the top

of the tree.

 

Mind thought

I really wonder why people suddenly change after they get what they wanted. One day they are sweet, the other day they are not. One day they are here, the other day they are gone. One day they made you something special, the other day they made you worthless. One day they say they love you, the other day they don't care a single thing about you.

That's how ironic things are and people can be. Pretty fakes, perfect lies, beautiful mess. But it's still your choice to make, because you choose to get hurt when you choose to be in love.

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Someday we'll forget the hurt, the reason we cried, and who caused us pain. We will finally realized that the secret of being free is not revenge, but letting things unfold in their own way and time.

After all, what matters is not the first, but the last chapter of our life which shows how well we ran in the rain. So smile,  laugh, forgive, believe, and love all over again.

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I want someone I could go to, someone I can tell my secrets to. The one who won't judge me for the mistakes I've made, and the mistakes I will continue to make because they know that nobody is perfect.

I want someone who listens, not just hears. Someone who says good night, and pray to God they get the chance to say good morning. The one who knows my quirks and accepts it for who I am, who wipes my tears away.

I want someone who needs me.

I want someone who loves me.

The definition of LOVE

“I love you” means that I accept you for the person that you are, and that I do not wish to change you into someone else. 

It means that I will love you and stand by you even through the worst of times. 

It means loving you even when you’re in a bad mood, or too tired to do the things I want to do. It means loving you when you’re down, not just when you’re fun to be with. 

“I love you” means that I know your deepest secrets and do not judge you for them, asking in return that you do not judge me for mine. 

It means that I care enough to fight for what we have and that I love you enough not to let go. 

It means thinking of you, dreaming of you, wanting and needing you constantly, and hoping you feel the same way for me.

Broken

When you lose someone, someone you love.

When they break your heart.

It’s the hardest thing you could ever go through.

And no matter how much time has passed, it never really goes away.

You may think you’re getting better, but then you get a flashback, or hear a song that reminds you of a memory, and it hits you all over again, all at once, like a stab in the chest.

You fall apart, for the hundredth time.

And you feel like you just want to crawl under a rock and never come out.

You love this person with all of your heart, even though you know you shouldn’t.

They hurt you worse than you’ve ever been hurt.

They stole your happiness.

But yet, you still want them, and only them.

Other people come along and give you chances to move on, but you know you don’t want to.

It upsets you that you might be moving on, because you promise you never would.

And even if they broke all their promises, you want to keep yours.

On top of that, you’re terrified.

Terrified of getting hurt again.

But it’s not like it matters anyway.

At the end of the day you’re still thinking about the person who has left you completely broken.

You don’t want to miss them anymore.

You don’t want to love them anymore.

But you know you always will.